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New to the site? Here's a tour, in the order I'd give one to a friend.

If we just met and I had to pick three things to show you — these would be them.

If you only read one essay…

The gift of an agonizing limerance is the most recent, and probably the one that hurt the most to write.

If you have an evening…

Read these in this order:

  1. On Looking Inwards — how I quit instagram and re-met myself.
  2. To My Future Son — the most tender thing I've ever written.
  3. Messages to 24 People I Know — letters I'd send if I had the courage.
  4. I Hope It Happens For You — on matchmaking, love, and trying.

If you want to know what I'm up to right now…

I keep a now page for that. Updated whenever life nudges me.

If you came for the AI stuff…

My day job is at Cline, building agentic coding tools. I write notes about it as I go — they're collected at /projects/AgenticAi, and I post in real time on Twitter.

If you came for the visual stuff…

  • Art — graffiti is my favourite category of beauty.
  • The White Shirt Project — a wearable map of the people I've loved.
  • Travel — every pin is a story.
  • Photos — a scrapbook of moments, all in one place.
  • Pixel Board — leave a mark, others will see it.

Want to chat? Email me. I read everything.